Making Memories

These days, it seems we all are living on a much tighter budget. Prices are higher while paychecks stay the same. This makes it so hard to get out and do things, especially if it comes with an admission cost. Nevermind all the bells and whistles flashing extravagantly at you while walking through the venue. Families with more than one child above the age of two truly feel the pocket burn as their little ones reach for the next dust corner decoration.

What is the worth of these expenses? Why deal with the hassle of rude crowds and overpriced junk? Who truly benefits from the chaos that is an organized event? How can we justify the blow to the bank account?

The answer is simple. Memories.

We do not take anything with us to the grave other than our memories. No amount of money or stuff will make death any easier. However, knowing you made the best memories and lived the fullest life possible might be more of a comfort as you say goodbye to this world.

Spending $250 for a family of four is absolutely worth the smiles and excitement on my children's faces as they watch a woman be shot from a cannon at a circus. Forking out $400 for a day of learning about our nation's history at the museum is a better use of money than letting it sit in an account until you die and cannot be used.

We work so hard for our money, so we become overly protective of our assets. We are to the point where we would rather sit at home saving money over going out and spending a few hundred dollars to have a memorable experience.

What is worse is complaining the whole time about the crowds or the costs. Why focus on the negatives? Why not watch and cherish the amazement of your little learners?

We get such a limited amount of time to spend with our children. We should take every opportunity to show them the amazing things in this world. No matter the cost. You cannot put a price on the memories made, as they are truly priceless. I would pay anything for my children to have such an amazing time that they talk about it years later.

In fact, these moments could ignite traditions, particularly if planned out ahead of time. I know life in general is expensive, and I am not saying do something extravagant every week. In all reality, the fewer times you do something spectacular, more special and exciting the moment will be for everyone.

Living on a budget is tough, but we should make sacrifices to ensure our children have the best experiences possible. As long as the bills are paid, set a little something aside each paycheck for that special adventure. For example, do not buy that extra box of cookies or chocolate milk on the next grocery run, so you can watch your child light up during an acrobatic show.

Crowds are never enjoyable. Money is getting harder and harder to acquire. Though, time is ever fleeting. What matters the most to you? Having a full bank account, or your child's full heart?

It all comes down to perspective. Think of it as buying one of a kind memories that noone will have but you. They are rare and precious and should never be taken for granted.

When you do spend the money, do not dwell on the numbers. Instead, cherish the moments. By that point, the money is already spent. So, stop thinking about how much financing went into the day and focus more on what you get out of the trip.

Are the bills paid? Is there food on the table? Do you have clothes on your back? Is there a roof of your head when you sleep? If the answers are yes, then forget about what you spent to give your children, or even yourself, a fantastic day. It is worth every penny.

Life is too short to stress over where every cent is spent. Enjoy every moment and make as many memories as you can. Death does not care how much stuff or money you have in your possession. In the end, how you lived your life is what matters. Get out and live.